After showing me both sides of bar culture, he simply asked: “Which one do you prefer?”
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Parenting and Risky Behavior: Guiding Teens Through Life’s ‘Two Bars

When I was 18, my dad gave me one of the biggest life lessons in the most unexpected way. One evening, he took me to a quiet gentleman’s club—the kind of place where professors, engineers, doctors, and even political names would gather. There was no chaos, no shouting—just calm conversations over coffee, tea, soda, or…

Illustration of a domino effect symbolizing how modern life choices create chain reactions, from cultural shifts to family breakdowns and social consequences.
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The Domino Effect In Society & How It Shakes Us

Life isn’t lived in isolation. Every action we take—whether it’s personal, cultural, or political—creates a ripple. Some ripples are small, like forgetting to recycle a plastic bottle. Others trigger full-blown chain reactions, toppling values, families, and even nations like a row of dominoes. It’s the domino effect of society that is unbeknownst to many that…

A hand discreetly pouring drugs into a glass of drink at a bar counter, symbolizing the danger of drink spiking.

The Dangerous Game: Dating in the Age of Spiked Drinks and Shaky Intentions

From “Mchele” in Kenya to date rape drugs in the West, modern dating isn’t just risky emotionally—it could be a matter of survival. Modern dating was already a minefield. Now, in many parts of the world, it’s more like walking through a battlefield blindfolded—with your wallet, drink, and dignity all under threat. Let’s start with…

Married man noticing another woman, representing temptation and relationship choices in ethical non-monogamy (ENM)

Could Ethical Non-Monogamy Be the Answer To The Side Chick

What if the real problem in modern relationships isn’t polygamy—but the lie of forced monogamy? In this bold take on love, honesty, and African tradition, Skywatcher explores why pretending to be monogamous is hurting us more than polygamy ever did. From Ronaldinho’s double engagement to Uganda’s quiet relationship crisis, it’s time we faced the truth about love and built relationships that work — not ones that just look good