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I Didn’t Disappear. I Went Where Most People Avoid.

If you’ve been wondering why I went quiet, here’s the uncomfortable truth: I wasn’t resting. I wasn’t lost. I wasn’t “busy with life.” I was thinking. And thinking deeply is something modern society actively discourages. While everyone was posting opinions they hadn’t lived, I stepped away to do something radical: sit with experience. Mine. Other…

Heaven or Earth? Why Christians Might Be Looking in the Wrong Direction

There’s a popular belief floating around that Earth is a sinking ship, and heaven is the rescue boat. Many Christians treat life like a rental car with a “return it later” mindset: “Why maintain it? Why repair it? Why care? I’m getting a new one in heaven anyway.” But that’s right. That’s spiritual laziness dressed…

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THE GREATEST GIFT OF ALL — AND WHY WE STILL STRUGGLE TO GIVE IT

Humanity has built skyscrapers, decoded DNA, gone to the moon, created artificial intelligence, and somehow still can’t agree on whether pineapple belongs on pizza. But of all the mysteries we wrestle with, one question sits right at the center of the human heart: What is the greatest gift of all? For thousands of years, religions,…

A person sitting at a café table alone, with two cups of coffee: one for them, one for a missed partner.
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PART 2: Why We Self-Sabotage Love: Common Modern Dating Mistakes

If Part 1 exposed the chaos of modern dating, Part 2 dives into the real culprit behind heartbreak: us. Yes, sometimes we are our own worst enemies, quietly sabotaging love without even realizing it. 1️⃣ Fear Dressed as Independence Modern dating mantra: “I don’t need anyone.” Sounds empowering… until your heart is waving a tiny…

Ghosting and overthinking in modern dating

PART 1 — What Actually Happens in Modern Relationships

Let’s be honest: dating today feels less like romance and more like two people negotiating a business merger over cocktails. Everyone is pretending: But beneath the filters, the gym selfies, and the buzzwords like ‘“God-fearing,” “ambitious,” “sapiosexual,” “financially stable,” everyone is asking the same silent question: “What can I gain from this person?” 1️⃣ The…

A divine hand moving a chess piece on a surreal chessboard in the sky, symbolizing God guiding human destiny and life decisions.

Understanding God’s Timing, Process, and Plan for Your Life

If you’ve ever wondered how God speaks, let me help you: He rarely uses soft, poetic whispers. If He asked nicely, we’d doubt it’s Him, start overthinking, or assume it was the chapati we ate at midnight. So instead, God moves life around like a chessboard — the ultimate divine intervention. He shifts people, emotions,…

A dramatic painting of King Mesha of Moab sacrificing his son at sunset on a city wall, symbolizing false victory and the consequences of moral compromise.

When God Is Silent: The Hidden Warning in King Mesha’s Story

When I look at the news these days — the scandals, the corruption, the atrocities, and how many people somehow get away with things that should have ended careers and lives — I’m reminded of certain Bible stories that were not loud at all. No floods. No plagues. No fire raining from the sky. Just…

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Divine Reverse Engineering: Understanding God’s Plan vs Your Plan

When we pray to God, sometimes He answers with a “yes” — not because the thing is good for us, but because He wants us to live and learn for ourselves. You say, “Lord, I want this job, this partner, this business, this car.” And God, in His divine patience, replies, “Okay. Let’s see what…

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What Animal Are You? A Simple Game to Understand Yourself

Have you ever noticed how some people seem to waste their potential? They chase shortcuts, greed, or fleeting pleasures, forgetting that life isn’t just about wealth, status, or appearances. I was recently reminded of this when thinking about a relative — a young man who seems more interested in what he might inherit from his…

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The Folly of Chasing Money: When Success Becomes a Spiritual Trap-Dubai Porta Potty

Money is supposed to be a tool — a way to exchange value, provide comfort, and maybe even do some good in the world. But sometimes, money becomes a microscope — and under it, the ugliest corners of the human soul are magnified, illuminated, and auctioned off to the highest bidder. Recently, the Dubai Porta…