Ghosting and overthinking in modern dating

PART 1 — What Actually Happens in Modern Relationships

Let’s be honest: dating today feels less like romance and more like two people negotiating a business merger over cocktails. Everyone is pretending: But beneath the filters, the gym selfies, and the buzzwords like ‘“God-fearing,” “ambitious,” “sapiosexual,” “financially stable,” everyone is asking the same silent question: “What can I gain from this person?” 1️⃣ The…

A hand discreetly pouring drugs into a glass of drink at a bar counter, symbolizing the danger of drink spiking.

The Dangerous Game: Dating in the Age of Spiked Drinks and Shaky Intentions

From “Mchele” in Kenya to date rape drugs in the West, modern dating isn’t just risky emotionally—it could be a matter of survival. Modern dating was already a minefield. Now, in many parts of the world, it’s more like walking through a battlefield blindfolded—with your wallet, drink, and dignity all under threat. Let’s start with…